It is common for
recovering addicts to have drug dreams and they can be incredibly stressful and
create negative feelings and emotions. But can drug dreams also predict whether
or not a person will be successful in addiction recovery? What do your drug dreams
say about you?
Whether you have been in addiction recovery for a couple months
or a few years, drug dreams unfortunately remain a common part of recovery.
Even when a person is doing well in recovery from addiction, it
is possible to have vivid dreams about using drugs or drinking alcohol. Drug
dreams are a common and completely normal part of addiction recovery and
although they may be a source of stress or negative thoughts or emotions, they
may also be able to help predict whether or not an addict will be successful in
recovery.
What is the Meaning behind Drug Dreams?
The subconscious mind, even in
recovering addicts who are doing extremely well in the recovery process, often
still craves the substance the person was addicted to. For example, the conscious
mind of a recovering alcoholic knows that having just one
sip of alcohol is a bad idea, and is aware of the negative
consequences that would follow. The subconscious mind, however, may still be
fixated on the addiction. When the individual falls asleep, it is the
subconscious mind that brings forth vivid images of alcohol consumption and
over-indulging.
Effects
of Dreaming about Drug and Alcohol Use while in Recovery
Waking up after having a dream about taking drugs or alcohol can
be frightening. In many cases, it takes the dreamer a little while to realise
that their substance use was only a dream, and that they did not actually
relapse or mess up in their recovery. It is the emotions which follow that help
decipher whether these dreams are more likely to be a warning of relapse or an
affirmation that recovery is going well, which is explained in further detail
below:
1. Relapse Pending
Dreams
If, once the recovering addict realises that the alcohol or drug
use was just a dream, they react with a longing to feel the effects of
intoxication once again — almost a wish that the dream had been
true — this is a sign that that the dreamer could fall into a relapse
more easily than many other recovering addicts.
2. Recovery
Affirming Dreams
In the case of recovery-affirming
dreams, the recovering addict, once realising that the drug or alcohol use was
only a dream, will react with relief in knowing that it was only a dream, and will experience
feelings of repulsion toward the substances abused in the dream. This is a good
sign that the dreamer’s recovery is going strong, that they are serious about
their sobriety and recovery plan, and that they are less likely to fall into a
relapse.
Dealing with the Effects of Substance-Abuse Dreams
Whether your drug dreams are a warning of relapse or an
affirmation of successful recovery, it is important to take the time to fully
deal with the feelings and emotions they create in the following ways:
§ Understand your
feelings.
Once you awake from
your dream take some time to really focus on how you are feeling. Do you feel
disgusted by the behaviour in your dream? Jealous? Indifferent? Fully
understanding how you feel after the dream is the only way to know how to deal
with it properly. Write down your dream as soon as you wake up as well.
Comparing your drug dreams against each other will help you analyse them
properly.
§ Talk to someone you
trust.
Talk to your
sponsor, counsellor, or attend a recovery meeting where you can speak about
your dream to someone you trust. Even if you are convinced that your dream is a
recovery-affirming dream, letting others know that you are having these types
of dreams is important. As well, talking out loud often allows you to
understand the dream and your feelings from a different
perspective — possibly uncovering some truths about your own feelings
that were hidden before.
§ Look for triggers.
Is there something
that may have triggered your dream? Did you walk by an old hangout spot, or
bump into an old friend? Maybe someone at work said something that reminded you
of your using days. If you can think of something specific that may have
triggered the dream, try to avoid these things in the future.
§ Create a relapse
prevention plan.
All drug dreams are
a sign that your unconscious mind is still thinking about your addiction. If
you do not have a relapse prevention plan in place already, be sure to create
one. You can never be too cautious about prevention relapse, as you do not want
to have to start over after all the hard work you have already put in. It is
better to be prepared.
Preventing Drug Dreams
Dreams are an act of the subconscious mind during sleep which
unfortunately, we have little control over once we fall asleep. However, there
are a few things that you can do during the day which are said to decrease the
chances of having bad dreams, or in some cases, having any dreams at all.
1. Relieve stress.
Stress throughout the day is one of the most common triggers for
dreams, particularly bad ones, and is also a major relapse trigger on its own.
Relieving as much stress as possible on a daily basis is an important aspect of
recovery.
2. Exercise daily.
Performing some type of physical activity each day, from light
yoga or stretching to vigorous aerobics, is said to increase quality of sleep
and decrease the dream stage.
3. Do not eat too
close to bedtime.
Many people find that eating food too close to bedtime causes an
increase of dreams and disturbed sleep. Try to keep evening meals light and
healthy, and curb your late-night snacking habits.
4. Relax before
bed.
If you have been on the go for most of the day, be sure to take
some quality time to relax on your own before going to bed. Read a book or play
your favourite video game to relax your mind before trying to sleep.
5. Create a
relaxing sleep atmosphere.
A deep sleep is a dreamless sleep, and a deep sleep occurs most
often in the right atmosphere. Ensure your bedroom is very dark, tidy and
clean. Try using relaxing essential oils around the room as well to create an
oasis perfect for a good night’s sleep.
Listen to
What your Subconscious is Telling You
If you are experiencing drug dreams
with increased frequency or your reaction to drug dreams are severe and/or
negative, be sure to reach out to someone for help. Call a counsellor or reach out to your sponsor for support. Do not be afraid
to ask for the help you need, as it could be the difference between success in
addiction recovery or relapse.
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